7-Day Plan — Day 1 of 7

Know your real buying number

What can I realistically buy? Start here, before you look at a single listing.

Direct answer

Your real buying number isn't what a lender might approve you for — it's the highest monthly housing payment you can afford and still cover debt, taxes, insurance, HOA, and an emergency fund without stress. Run your income and existing debt through a real calculator before you look at a single listing.

Use the Buying Power Calculator

Already have a specific home price in mind? Try the payment calculator instead.

Why this matters

Approved-for and comfortable-with are different numbers

A lender's maximum is based on a debt-to-income (DTI) ratio ceiling — typically up to around 43-50% of gross monthly income going to debt, depending on the loan program. That's a regulatory limit, not a recommendation for how you should actually live.

This site's calculators use a stricter, more conservative 40% back-end DTI ceiling by default — existing debt plus your new housing payment — and you can tighten that further based on your own comfort level. The gap between "a lender would approve this" and "I'd be comfortable paying this every month for 30 years" is exactly the gap Day 1 is about closing.

Evidence

What actually goes into your number

Household income
Gross annual, before taxes
Monthly debt
Car loans, student loans, credit cards, etc.
Down payment
Cash you have saved now
Interest rate & term
Drives your monthly principal & interest
Property tax & insurance
Often 1.25%+/yr and $2,000+/yr in the Bay Area
PMI
Applies automatically if your down payment is under 20%
HOA
Common for condos/townhomes — easy to forget
Reserves
Cash held back after closing, not spent on the purchase

Step by step

How to find your number today

  1. 1

    Add up your real monthly debt

    Every recurring payment — not just what shows on a credit report. Car, student loans, credit cards, anything with a fixed monthly bill.

  2. 2

    Enter your numbers into the buying power calculator

    Income, debt, down payment, and interest rate. It solves for a realistic price range using the same 40% DTI ceiling described above, plus PMI, property tax, insurance and HOA — not just principal and interest.

  3. 3

    Read the full monthly payment breakdown, not just the price

    The calculator shows principal, interest, tax, insurance, PMI and HOA separately, so you can see exactly what's driving your number.

  4. 4

    Decide if the comfortable number should be lower

    If the max the calculator shows still feels tight against your other goals, that's useful information — re-run it with a smaller target monthly payment.

Example

What this looks like with real numbers

Example

$190,000 household income, $800/mo existing debt, $120,000 down payment, 6.5% rate

Monthly housing budget at a 40% DTI ceiling: about $5,533/mo.

That solves for an estimated price range of roughly $615,000–$725,000.

Because the down payment is under 20% of that price, PMI applies — about $252/mo, folded into the total. Property tax and insurance add roughly $955/mo combined. The full breakdown (not just principal and interest) is what makes this number realistic instead of optimistic.

Checklist

Before you move to Day 2

  • Ran your own numbers through the buying power calculator
  • Reviewed the full monthly payment breakdown, not just the top-line price
  • Decided on a comfortable monthly number, which may be lower than the calculator's max
  • Noted whether PMI applies to your scenario, and what it adds

Methodology

How this number is actually calculated

Methodology

The calculator solves for the maximum home price your income and debt support at a 40% back-end debt-to-income ceiling, then works out the full monthly payment for that price — principal & interest, property tax, homeowners insurance, PMI (if your down payment is under 20%), and HOA. Every default (tax rate, insurance, PMI rate) is shown on the page and editable, not hidden. Full methodology and how the math was independently verified: see our methodology page.

Caveats: this is an educational estimate, not a pre-approval or financial advice. Actual lender approval depends on credit score, full underwriting, and the specific loan program — always confirm with a licensed lender before treating any number here as final.

Next

Day 2: Know how much cash you need

Your down payment isn't the whole story — closing costs, prepaids, and reserves add up too. This page isn't live yet; it's next in the 7-Day Plan build.