Our journey

We're buying our first Bay Area home too

This isn't a hypothetical. We're first-time buyers going through the exact process this site is built to explain — and publishing the real numbers, lenders, and cities we're weighing as we go.

Why this exists

Real homes, real numbers — including ours

Most real-estate sites sell listings or leads. We're documenting our own first-home search so you can see what the process actually looks like from the inside, not just the marketing version.

Stage

Comparing cities

Pre-approval

In progress

Areas shortlisted

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Our status snapshot is updated periodically and reflects our own search, not a live feed.

Latest updates

What we've learned so far

Each update covers one real decision, with our own numbers attached.

Milpitas vs. Morgan Hill: What We're Weighing

One gets us BART and newer construction. The other gets us more square footage for the same payment. Here's how we're actually deciding.

Cities

We Compared 5 Bay Area Lenders

Rate quotes, lender fees, and how fast each one could actually get us a real pre-approval letter.

Financing

What a Builder Tour Actually Taught Us

Incentive pricing, Mello-Roos fine print, and the upgrade-package math builders don't lead with.

New construction

Our Actual Monthly Payment, Line by Line

Principal, interest, taxes, insurance and HOA — the real breakdown behind one home we looked at.

Money

We Asked a Local Lender Our Dumbest Questions

Points, rate locks, and what 'shopping around' actually changed for us.

Expert Q&A

Full write-ups for each update are coming soon as we complete them.

Coming later

Other Bay Area buyers' stories

Once ours is further along, we plan to feature other first-time buyers — different incomes, different cities, different trade-offs — under this same journey.

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City price updates, assistance program changes, new construction openings, and honest notes from our own buying journey. No listings spam.

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